My continued gratitude list

It's dark out. Quite in here.  The only sound I hear is the refrigerator humming and my fingers hitting the keys on the computer. 

Early morning...late nights—I adore them.  It is in these moments that I am able to reflect on the day gone by...

I thank Him for the gifts.

One of my greatest delights: being able to open His Word to meditate.  Think.  Ponder.  Sit still.

My reading comes from the book of Mark:

"In the early morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house, and went away to a secluded place and was praying." ~ Mark 1:35 ~

My List # 38 - 50

Thankful for my alone time.  A time to rekindle, refocus and think.

Thankful for life ... health & the ability to reflect

Thankful for warm beverages

A glowing fire

lotion after a good bath!

early morning rising & late nights.

my husbands kindness

prayer

The duties which fulfill my days.

grace

Christian radio

The ability "to live fully right where I am..." or actually for trying to learn

kind people


Beyond Gates of Splendor, part 1

This is one of my most favorite stories—it's tragic and triumph on so many levels.  It's remarkable to see how the lives (and death) of  such (extra) ordinary men and what they lived and died for are still touching the lives of millions world-wide today.

If you click on this link, Valerie Elliot Shepard Interview, you can read my interview with Jim Elliot's daughter Valerie and see a few pictures of his grand kids.  Jim (Val's son) resembles his grandfather tremendously.

I will post part 2, next Saturday


How to forfeit and find your peace

Here's a good way we can forfeit (give it away...interrupt) our peace:

The hymn says, "O what peace we often forfeit, O what needless pain we bear, all because we don't carry everything to God in prayer."


Prayerlessness, is one of the many ways we forfeit the peace of God.  But Elisabeth Elliot has a list of other things that causes us to loose and find our peace:

~ resent God's ways.
~ worry as much as possible
~ pray only about things you can't manage by yourself
~ refuse to accept what God gives
~ look for peace elsewhere than in Him
~ try to rule your own life
~ doubt God's Word
~ carry all your cares

How to find your peace

~ Don't worry about anything (Phil 4:6)
~ "In everything make your requests known to God in prayer and petition with thanksgiving .  Then the peace of God ... will guard your hearts." (Phil 4: 6-7)
~ "Take my yoke upon you and learn from me...and you will find rest." (Matt. 11:29)
~ "Peace is my parting gift to you, my own peace, such as the world cannot give." (Jn. 14:27)
~ "Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts" (Col. 3:15)
~ "May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing" (Rom 15:13).
~ "He cares for you, so cast all your anxiety of Him" (1 Pet. 5:7).
Tranquility:







"Do the next thing"

Iwoke to feelings I'd not had in a while, an overwhelming saddness flooded me!

"Oh, boy, what's going on here I thought."

My body didn't want to move.  It longed for the security of my blanket: aloneness.  I could hear them, the kids and my husband in the kitchen scrambling around.

"Oh gosh—there's so much to do.  Where do I began?"

Finally, I rise.  Go to the bathroom, run bath water, brush teeth, wash face, face them— my family.  Then I remember her and her teaching us:   "Do the next thing."

"But I don't want to do the next thing."  I want to stay here and wallow, wallow in self-pity or whatever it was I'm feeling.

He beckons me to come, bend the knee—but I don't.  I ignore Him. 

"Do the next thing," I hear.  I do the next thing and the next thing after that and so on and so forth.






"From an old English parsonage, down by the sea
There came in the twilight a message to me,
Its quaint Saxon legend, deeply engraven,
Hath, as it seems to me, teaching from Heaven.
And on through the hours the quiet words ring
Like a low inspiration—"DO THE NEXT THING."


Many a questioning, many a fear,
Many a doubt, hath its quieting here.
Moment by moment, let down from Heaven,
Time, opportunity, guidance, are given.
Fear not tomorrows, Child of the King,
Trust them with Jesus, "DO THE NEXT THING."

Do it immediately; do it with prayer;
Do it reliantly, casting all care;
Do it with reverence, tracing His Hand
Who placed it before thee with earnest command.
Stayed on Omnipotence, safe neath His wing,
Leave all resultings, "DO THE NEXT THING."

Looking to Jesus, ever serener,
(Working or suffering) be thy demeanor,
In His dear presence, the rest of His calm,
The light of His countenance by thy psalm,
Strong in His faithfulness, praise and sing,
Then, as He beckons thee, "DO THE NEXT THING."

 ~ Author Unknown

~

Whatever your hand finds to do,
do it with all your might
________________________

Ecclesiates 9:10

Blessings,
Angela

Eternal Communion

Marriage: a covenant between a man and a woman that binds them together for life. 



Today we will discuss, "The Practice of Marriage," as it causes us to Walk Closer to Him. 


The practice of marriage is a practice of FULLY and COMPLETELY giving of oneself for the other—even when you may not want to.  It's a life long practice.


Marriage teaches us to love the "seemingly" unlovable sometimes.  The same qualities that Christ uses with us—His bridegroom we must use with our spouse, and they with us.


It's a union that's only released through death.
It's the coming together of two to become one.
"It's the worse of times.  It's the best of times."


In the practice of marriage, we laugh and we cry.  We love and we hate.  We learn how flawed and sin-ravished "we" are.


On the surface it seems like a most "ordinary" experience, but it is the most HOLY of experiences.  For in marriage we practice: Living by the Spirit.  We learn that, "I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me.  The life I live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me." ~ Gal. 2;20.   We understand how God relates to us—though skewed and flawed...He keeps on being .... just as the Spirit has many roles in our lives, there are many roles that we have with our mate.


Marriage teaches us to become empowered through His Word rather than focusing on our marital bliss—the good or the bad thereof.  We learn life's fight—the character study of self.   It is a crucified life.  It is the picking up of one's cross daily.  A holy practice.  It is a foregoing of your rights—the true practice of marriage.  We learn that dying to oneself is painful.


The practice of marriage gives us a constant opportunity to choose the will of God over our own.  It's excruciating at times.  In this most holy of practices we learn that it hurts to have our desires crucified.






  But God said, "It is not good for the man to be alone.  I will make him a helper suitable for him." Gen. 2:18



God's creative work was not complete until he made woman.  He could have made her from the dust of the ground, as he made man.  God chose, however, to make her from the man's flesh and bone.  In so doing, He illustrated for us that in marriage man and woman symbolically become one flesh.  This is a mystical union of the couple's hearts and lives. 


Throughout the Bible, God treats this special partnership seriously.  We who are married or who are planning to be married must be willing to keep the commitment that makes the two, one.


The goal in marriage should be more than friendship.  It should be oneness.  ~ NASB


"God forms and equips men and women for various tasks, but all of these tasks lead to the same goal—honoring God.  Man gives life to woman.  Woman gives life to the world.  Each role carries exclusive privileges.  There is no room for thinking that one sex is superior to the other."


The Gift of marriage was given by God for mainly three reasons:


  • The man leaves his parents and in a public act promises himself to his wife.
  • The man and woman are joined together by taking responsibility for each other's welfare and by loving the mate above all others.
  • The two become one flesh for the intimacy and commitment of sexual union that is reserved for marriage. ~ taken from the New American Standard Bible
"Then one of the seven angels who had the seven bowls full of the seven last plagues came and spoke with me saying, 'Come here, I will show you the bride, the wife of the Lamb.' " ~ Rev. 21:9


We—  the Christian are the bride of the Lamb.



"O God, you have so consecrated the covenant of marriage that in it is represented the spiritual unity between Christ and his Church:  Send therefore your blessing upon these your servants, that they may so love, honor, and cherish each other in faithfulness and patience, in wisdom and true godliness, that their home may be a haven of blessing and peace; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever, Amen" ~ The Book of Common Pryaer


His words hurt me

There's nothing like the pain of harsh words coming from a soul that is wrong, and has wronged you, but won't admit to the wrongness: pain.

Our words—the utterances that flow out of our mouths... we praise with these utterances, and we lash the soul with these same utterances from the mouth...from the heart.

Friendships are built and friendships are torn down by the choice of our words. 

Words give us a glance into the soul of the speaker, sometimes a troubled heart is able to hide, seemingly fool with their words, but it's only for a season.  Eventually the true heart and true self give way to truth.

His Word tells us ...


A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger. 

The tongue of the wise makes knowledge acceptable, but the mouth of fools spouts folly.

 ~ Proverbs 15: 1-3

This week my heart has been broken...shattered into pieces by the harsh words of a friend.

I want to fade away, but I don't.  I must still go forward looking and searching for my one thousand gifts: remembering to live fully right where I am.  I must continue to live and breathe His Words.

Flesh wants to fight its own battle of self-preservation with word lashing, but I don't  (I did a bit already, but remembered...live it out!  Live out what I'm learning.  What I write about.).  Instead I fall before Him, on bending knees and beg heaven's forgiveness.  Give me another chance I pray to Him, another chance to use my words for Your good and to your glory.

When wounds heal, I will send a letter of words...apologizing for any wrong doing on my part... 

I reacted to a wrong I believed was done to me, but my heart says: apologize, so I will.  And then I will move on.

I write on screen tapping out my words— finding healing, solace from his pain words.  That's how I heal: with words.  I tap them out.  It is in the writing that I work out many issues—heartfelt issues.

Use your words today to lift someone spirits high!

Accept whatever befalls...


This, then is of faith, that everything, the very least, or what seems to us great, every change of the seasons, everything which touches us in mind, body, or estate, whether brought about through this outward senseless nature, or by the will of man, good or bad, is overruled to each of us by the all-holy and all-loving will of God.  Whatever befalls us—how ever it befalls us, we must receive as the will of God.  If it befalls us through man's negligence, or ill-will, or anger, still it is, in even the least circumstance, to us the will of God.  For it the least thing could happen to us without God's permission it would be something out of God's control.  God's providence or His love would not be what they are.  Almighty God Himself would not be the same God; not the God whom we believe—adore, and love. ~ Edward B. Pusey

Blessings,

Angela

Pursuing His one thousand gifts in the ordinary ...




Giving thanks for now...this moment, this time...that's what gratitude looks like to me.

I use to think it was about giving a BIG thank you when the extraordinary happened, but I've come to learn that my routine...day-to-day work of: working, writing, schooling my children, cleaning of the house; the cooking of meals, mothering, being his wife and His daughter are all part of my extraordinary work.  And that is where I also find Him...my Father— I AM, in the doing of my calling.

It's not just in church where I find Him, or in the reading of His book, or doing "good deeds" ..., no I find Him and the gifts right there in my living out what He has taught me in church, and the reading of His book.  In the midst of me "living" I find Him...I feel Him ... beside me...talking to me...guiding me...teaching me.

And that's where I find my joy.  "I find joy in the tarry there."

Did you know that gratitude is the key to living a contented (happy) life?  Why?

Most of the time we can't display gratitude because we are anxious about one thing or another.  There is some issue—some thing that begs our attention; therefore, instead of us focusing on Him we focus on "it."  Our eyes become fixed on the issue at hand.  Here's the key, though:

I know you've heard it said, just as I have, but it's true and worth repeating.  I'm learning and practicing this more—don't have it together totally and I doubt if I ever will, but I'm starting and if you haven't begun, now you can.  "Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication WITH THANKSGIVING {gratitude} let your request be made known to God and the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus."Philippians 4: 6-7

That's the key right there!  When we practice this God gives us His peace, and having that peace allows us to live FULLY right where we are! 

Each Monday, I participate along with some fellow Christian bloggers in sharing our gratitude list.  Not a bucket list, but a gratitude list.  It's a multitude of things that we share—things that we're grateful for. 

We hunt down the seemingly unimportant things...things that the normal heart would take for granted.  We are a bunch of dedicated women who have made a decision to pursue gratitude, and in our pursuit we have found gifts—abundant gifts...soul changing gifts.s

The blog host, Ann Voskamp started this movement (that's Ann sitting in the middle on the video talking) several years ago and now she has a newly released book, "One thousand gifts: A dare to live fully right where you are."

As flawed people finding joy and gratitude in the not so obvious things can seem—dauting and not so thrilling at first, but I promise this is the secret to life.  the key to living a more fulfilled and rewarding life.

Dear friend, I'd like for you to accept the dare of Ann Voskamp along with many other ladies (and a few men) to live your life fully right where you are.

Dare yourself to find the gifts in your ordinary life, your ordinary surroundings!  Their there... all one thousand of them and then some more just waiting for you to discover!

Gratitude list:











~ Ann V's blog

~ community of bloggers

~ other Christians

~ Second Baptist Church (North Campus)

~ Sam Roberts my new employer

~ Pam my new co-worker

~ people who do e-filing for taxes (my clients)

~ David Rupert High Calling Blog

Home school community

~ the love of expressing myself through words ~ writing ~

~ bloom (in) courage for choosing Ann's book for us to discuss

~ Gratitude community

~ Jenny H for all of her blog help

~ overcast days

~ house filled with too many school books scattered about

~ watching football with my husband

~ talking to parents on the phone

~ waking through the night to walk the house and check on my babies

~ putting blankets on cold kids who have kicked covers off

~ reaching down to rub sleeping childs face and give them a kiss

He gives what's required for His purpose

When some out-of-the ordinary supply is needed in order for us to accomplish the job God has given us, we can be confident He will provide.

"Shoes of Iron" were asked of Moses' blessing for Asher, an impossibly long-lasting provision from God.  The old spiritual says, 'I got shoes, you got shoes, all God's children got shoes ..."

But not all God's children have iron ones.   Only those who need them.

Our heavenly Father knows exactly what we will require to fulfill His purposes for usIt is wrong—it is in fact, a sin for us to worry about where the shoes will come from.  "Trust me!" 

God says to us.  "I'll give you iron ones if only iron ones can do this job."



I worried this morning about the seemingly impossibility of doing everything that needs to be done today, tomorrow and for next week since I'm now working outside the home for the next three months (and still homeschooling).

Then I remembered this article from Elisabeth Elliot's book, 'A Lamp for My Feet.'  What else did I remember?



I say it here a lot and I will continue saying it.  He reminded me of it, yet again, during morning prayer:

"Strength according to my day's need is promised and any special need—"iron shoes" or whatever—will also be forthcoming."

Making habit: praying for others

It's still dark out though it's morning.  The house is hushed.  Still.

I rise to talk to Him—Creator and the creature.  I'm remembering my spiritual practices—the one that draws me closer to Him.  The things that we write about on Wednesday's over at Ann Voskamps.

I'm reading Colossians—not necessarily trying to memorize it as Ann and other's are doing.  I'm simply reading through it.  I plan on reading through it several times this year to see ... what He has for me there.  I love reading and then re-reading scripture.  I always over look things and He always has more to say to me during each read and re-read.  I love that, communing with Him.  And I love when He works through others...setting me on fire by the ordinary person, His men and His women.



That's what He's doing to me through Ann and a few other bloggers.  Who would have known when I began this journey of blogging that it would first be done to share my walk with Him with others, and then that other's walk with Him would be so uplifting and motivating to me?  That's the way He works.

The ordinary motivating the ordinary as they give themselves to Him.  Amazing.

I'm still looking for one thousands gifts and striving to live fully right where I am.  I'm also making many new practices—habbits, as I've shared with you in many of my post.

Today is no different.  While reading through Colossians I came to a little table that talked about "Praying for others."  That got me to thinking:  Do I pray for others?  Who are the others I pray for and why?

People let me tell you something about me ... "I sure do fall short."



Yes, I pray for others...my loved ones...family members...a few friends and others here and there.  I've noted that I really pray for people when I want God to "show them themselves."  Isn't that something?  A bit selfish I might add... but He still loves me—even still.

So—another habit that I'm taking up is praying for others.

How many people in your life could be touched if you pray in this way?

How to pray for others:

  • Be thankful for their faith and changed lives.
  • Ask God to help them know what He wants them to do.
  • Ask God to give them deep spiritual understanding.
  • Ask God to help them live for Him.
  • Ask God to give them more knowledge of Himself.
  • Ask God to give them strength for endurance.
  • Ask God to fill them with joy, strength and thankfulness
"Get rid of sin and evil because you have been chosen by God to live a new life as a representative of the Lord Jesus." ~ NASB

Making habit: A dare to live fully right where I am

This year seems to be the year that I've taken to consciously form habits.  My goals are simple:

energetically search for wisdom.  treasure His commandments within my heart. make my ear attentive to wisdom.  incline my heart to understanding and ... search...search and pray for the hidden treasures that wisdom holds.


Ann Voskamp has written a book, "One Thousand Gifts:  A dare to live fully right where you are."  I haven't been able to shake that title—that dare.  I'm going to accept that dare, challenge, if you will.  This dare is what I'm going to practice to become habit.  Living fully right where I am.  To do this I believe the above goals are necessary for it takes wisdom to see the true beauty in such a dare.  It takes wisdom to recognize the hidden treasures of the one thousand gifts that stare us in the face each and every day—365 days a year.



How will this practice of habit began for me...one day at a time.  One prayer at a time.  It's His will.  All I have to do is come before Him with arms stretched asking Him to help me through the moment...the hour...the day, and He will.

He says, "ask what you will in my name..."

I ask Him to not let me forget my commitment to seeing His one thousand gifts 365 days.  I ask Him to let me be mindful each waking moment that I'm to fully and completely live right where I am.

Will you pray for me too?  That I—His undisciplined daughter will be disciplined enough to form this habit.

Please join us in community over at Dayspring's Book Club as we participate with Ann via video in discussion about her new book.

Letting Jesus make up the difference

Jesus what can I say to you that you don't already know?

First, I want to tell you what I'm taking part in with Ann & Holley (and some other lady bloggers).  We're calling ourselves "Word Girls."

Each Tuesday each of us Word Girls are linking up to Ann's blog: a holy experience and sharing our series of letters about loving you with our words.

So dear Lord, how do I love you?

INSTANTLY sadness befalls my heart.  My heart knows that I don't love you like I should.

BUT ...

You love me—even still.

The next question that comes to mind is ...

Do people see your love displayed through me?

Not often enough.

Last week Holley's letter to Ann was titled: "Why You and Your Words are More than Enough."

I've been thinking about that—pondering on the truth of that statement.  Is it true Lord?  Are me and my words enough?

It is true.  "Just offer what you have.  I will make up the difference."  That's what Holley wrote.

Oh Father, how she has uplifted me with those words.  She has reminded me... .  I know them too well.  You said that to me so many times; yet, I still forget.

I don't always approach each life situation in that manner either Holley.  I'm still learning.  Growing.

And today?

Today He is still telling me ... teaching me to offer all that I am to Him, and to let Him make up the difference—just as He has told so many who came before us.








Just offer myself to Him.  Just offer yourself to Him—that's all we gotta do.

Thank you beloved Holley for reminding me to "Just offer myself to Him."

Just offer yourself to Him, that's all you have to do, and let Him make up the difference!



"God said to Moses, 'I AM WHO I AM,' and He said, 'Thus you shall say to the sons of Israel. 'I AM has sent me to you.' "~ Exodus 3:14

So glad He loves me



The LORD never cease to amaze me.

Have any of you ever desired something, never really praying about it.  Well, I take that back—you pray about it, maybe even often, but you pray and then leave it alone.  Believing that He will answer, but not until the far-future (you believe).

I wish I could express my feelings in regards to this issue in a way that I know you could understood. 

What I'm trying to convey is that God does give us the desires of our hearts.  Some times we have to wait a long time for some of those desires to come forth and sometimes we don't.

Regardless, please be encourage that when we have desires and needs...

The Father gives us some of those desires when He knows that He will be glorified.


The Father also graciously takes care of the needs of His children.






Day-by-day He is continuing to care for me before I can even breath out through words what some of my desires and needs are.

I'm so glad that my Father in heaven loves me.  That He cares so much about me that He who sits in heaven finds me worthy to examine and take note of ...

He the all knowing...omniscient, omnipresent ... finds me...flawed and fallible...He finds me LOVABLE.

Ladies, this is one man we can be assured LOVES US.





Every Monday, I participate in a community with other bloggers.  We express our multitude of gratitude to our Father.

On Wednesday's we share in practices that draw us closer to Him. 

Would you please consider joining us?

The List: #'s 38-58

Him loving me
hanging out in the kitchen making memories
kitchen & house beauties
rain
cold weather
new job
parents new house
hot green tea
my new church
seasons in my life
friends who love me in spite of my flaws
children old enough to cook and be left home alone
life
health
disorganized house
piles of laundry
children laughing
ability to learn
His Word
salvation

Items in pictures can be purchased at Blessings Unlimited.

Are you a Christian worthy of pruning?

I' d like to share with you a Scripture that's been on my mind:

I am the true vine, and My Father is the vinedresser.  Every branch in Me that does not bear fruit.  He takes away; and every branch that bears fruit.  He prunes it so that it may bear more fruit.  (John 15: 1-2)



I've read this so many times and I've heard it read, but some where along the way...I seem to have MISSED,

"EVERY BRANCH IN ME THAT DOES NOT BEAR FRUIT.  HE TAKES AWAY AND EVERY BRANCH THAT BEARS FRUIT.  HE PRUNES IT SO THAT IT MAY BEAR MORE FRUIT."

Don't misunderstand:  I've READ it— but I haven't really READ it, know what I mean?

Do you ever do that?  Seemingly by-pass something in Scripture?


This passage tells me that NOT ALL CHRISTIANS are being pruned.  I didn't realize that.  Only the CHRISTIAN'S who are bearing fruit are worthy.

The word PRUNE is defines as something to rid or clear of (anything superfluous or undesirable).  To remove (anything considered superfluous or undesirable).

In this verse, however, Jesus refers to two kinds of pruning: separating and cutting back the branches.
Therefore this Scripture tells me that those of us Christians who are BEARING FRUIT...God wants us to continue bearing more fruit, and in order for that to happen He's going to rid us of the undesirable...

He's going to remove ...  SORT of reminds me of an operation... so that tells us there will be pain in being pruned.  



Sooooo, don't FRET over that hardship in your life, especially if you know you're in His Word...striving to live according to His principles.  Because more than likely, that bit of hardship is nothing more than you (and me) being PRUNED.  

Just like the grapevine bears many grapes when it's cut back...we too will bear more fruit by being cut back "pruned."  Like I said, it will hurt, but He knows.  He loves us, and it will make us better for His Kingdom work.

Be a worthy branch for His kingdom.



Christians or in this case branches, who aren't bearing fruit are going to be cut off (or are cut off) at the trunk so that they don't infect the rest of the tree.  Same is so with us, those who try to stop or block the efforts of those who are striving to follow God and be obedient will be cut off from His life-giving power.

YOUR GOAL:
Today, strive to be a branch worthy of being pruned.  As a matter of fact, welcome it!  Yeah, look forward to it!

Have a blessed day *_*

And remember: "Consider it all joy, my brethren, when you encounter various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance, and let endurance have its perfect result, so that you may be perfect and complete lacking in nothing." (James 1:2-4)


"We seem to gain wisdom more readily through our failures than through our successes. We always think of failure as the antithesis of success, but it isn’t. Success often lies just the other side of failure.” -Leo F. Buscaglia



Beyond The Gates of Splendor - Part 1



Those of you who know me, know that I've been blessed beyond measure in my spiritual life by the life of Jim and Elisabeth Elliot.

I love the story of the missionaries who gave their life for their calling, and the brave women who stayed behind and accomplished what their loved ones had come to that village to do: share the Good News.  It's still hard for me to believe that men would go (and have gone) to such great lengths for their belief.

If you would like to know more about Jim and Elisabeth Elliot's daughter, Valerie, please click on this interview where you can also view pictures of her and her family.

I ask that you only view the pictures.  Please don't save them or download them in any way without my written permission.

Interview with Valerie Elliot-Shepard.

Training days

Facing  times of troubles?

In my morning devotions I read a conversation between God and Jeremiah where God explained to Him why he was having troublesome days.

I'm so sure God's  respond is the same to YOU and ME many times.

When we're going through problems troublesome moments can be very useful.  A good way to look at our troubles is to think of them as "Our training."  They're our "training days."


I'm convinced that it is in the days of difficulties that we are able to see what kind of character we've developed.  To check your character begin to discern your own actions—learn what they mean.   You can check for things such as:

What is your thinking like when you are facing certain troubles?

How do you feel within?

Are you angry?  Why?  Why not?

Are you blaming someone else?  Or have you taken on too much of the blame?

How is your relationship with God, now?

How is your relationship with others?  What are those close to you telling you they see going on with you?  Listen to close friends and family?



It is in the times of trouble—our training days, that we can become stronger, grow in character.  Become the man or woman we long to be.

In reading the conversation between God and Jeremiah you see that God uses trouble for our good.  When we face trouble let's try not to complain.  The trouble we face today or tomorrow ...trains us to face more difficult situations in the future and before we know it, we'll look up and see that we are that woman or man of God that we've prayed to become and we have our troubles—the problems that He has allowed in our life to thank for helping develop our character.

Read Jeremiah 12 & 13 to see the interaction that takes place between man and his creator.

Extending grace

I'm back again today, talking about Grace.

Let me just start off by saying, "When you have screwed up in your Christian walk as much as I have...being inconsistent in your walk, having a bad attitude and so on, you come to appreciate GRACE."

I'm thankful for it.  The biggest reason I'm thankful for it now is because I really know within my being that I don't deserve it.

When I first became saved I knew that I was a sinner in need of it, but I believed the "lie" that so many often told me "I was good."  That was pre-married, pre-babies (7), and pre-homeschooling.



After being married for 20 years, having seven children, and homeschooling...I now know the sin that lives within my heart.  Husband and children—the people I love the most.  They are also the people that bring out the worst in me at times.  Sometimes when I think of family I think of the opening line in Charles Dickens classic: The tale of two cities: "It was the best of times.  It was the worst of times."

But God ...  He sees all of that about me (and you).  The ugliness that we hide so well with proper outwardly behavior, the clothes we wear, the house we live in, the car we drive, the church we attend, the house we keep...  He sees us...the real "us."  The child so undeserving and wretched—He sees that and He extends His GRACE.  He loves and accepts the ugliness of YOU and ME.

The Bible says in Romans 5:8, "But God showed His love for us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us..."  All of the vile ugliness that represents the cross...that He took in our place: GRACE.  LOVE.  MERCY.

Today, with your words and with your actions: Extend GRACE to some undeserving soul.


Do for someone else what God did for you.

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Grace is for sinners...

This is something I have to literally "mumble" to myself throughout the day when I come across people and their disappointing actions toward me.

It is also something I ask you to "mumble" to yourselves when I've disappointed you.

 Remember, God's GRACE is immediate.  "Therefore if you are presenting your offering at the altar, and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your offering there before the altar and go; first be reconciled to your brother, and then come and present your offering.~Matthew 5:24-25

Broken relationships can hinder our relationship with God.  When we have a problem or a grievance against a friend, we need to resolve the problem as soon as possible.

We are hypocrites when we claim to love God while we hate others.  Our attitudes toward others reflect our relationship with God.

Enjoy your weekend,

 angela

Discerning God's calling



One of my most beloved passages in the Bible is when God calls the boy Samuel.  Though I love the entire story my favorite part reads this way:  "So the LORD called Samuel again for the third time.  And he arose and went to Eli and said, 'Here I am, for you called me.'  {Here's one of my favorite phrases}  Then Eli DISCERNED that the LORD was calling the boy ..."


I remember I often worried about missing or not knowing when God called me when I first became saved.

"What do you want me to do Lord," I would eagerly ask?  "Speak to me Lord.,"

I don't worry about that anymore.  As with anything in life, experience is the best teacher, and in growing in faith I've learned that our Father is always willing to show His children the path they should take.  I'm not certain of many things, but when it comes to God—thankfully, there are many, many things we can be certain of.  One of those certainties is: If you or I want to be led by God, without a doubt He will lead us.

How much confidence do you have in your Shepherd leading you?


Can you (or I) offer ourselves to Him without any reservations whatsoever and be determined to do what He says?

So how do you know when He is calling you?


God calls us in the rhythm of our lives every day. It's an ongoing process day-by-day.  I use to think that there would be one TREMENDOUS call.   God comes in the small things...in our ordinary duties, those duties which our place in life entails.

What does that mean? 
It means that where ever you are in your life's journey, you are to do what you know to do...if you are a child, the duty in which your life entails is for you to be obedient to your parents and teachers.

If you're a man who is married then you know one of your callings is to love your wife. And women we are to be submissive to our husbands.  As citizens of the USA we are to obey the law of the land.  Singles are to refrain from sexual immorality...you get the picture?

Often times we try and make the call of God on our lives complicated and complex when it is neither.  Our conscience frequently has the answer to "The will of God" all we have to do is be obedient.  It is in being obedient to the call of today that He reveals the call of tomorrow.

If you become more discerning you are likely to see the will of God in the every day happenings of your life...you see them in things that are seemingly insignificant happenings.

..."for while we live, move, and have our being here on earth, in this place, this family, this house, this job, we live move, and have our being in God."  He "pulls strings through circumstances," as Jim Elliot said, even the bad circumstances.

Here are three questions that may help to clarify the call of God:

  1. Have I made up my mind to do what God says no matter what the cost?
  2. Am I faithfully reading the Bible—God's Word and praying?
  3. Am I obedient in what I know to do today of His will?



Let the morning bring me word of your unfailing love, for I have put my trust in you.  Show me the way I should go, for you I lift up my soul. ~ Psalm 143:8 NIV
Will He carry us?
He will carry us in His arms til we are able to walk;
He will carry us when we are weary with walking.
He will not carry us if we will not walk.



~ George MacDonald, The Hope of the Gospel

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a repost from the archives.  One I needed to revisit.

Repetition is the mother of skill and action is its father

The practice of habit.

Today we're participating with Ann over at A Holy Experience, where our spiritual journey leads us to 'The practice of habit.'

 We're looking at spiritual practices that cause us to Walk With Him: Things that cause us to draw closer to His throne.

Habit is define according to Dictionary.com as: "An acquired behavior pattern regularly followed until it has become almost involuntary.  It's customary practice or use; a particular practice", etc.

The logical question, for me, becomes: How do we go about Walking With Him using the practice of hait?

I would like to echo the words from Elisabeth Elliot that ring truth over and over again in my heart and mind "Anything if given to God can become our gateway to joy."

Those words are worth repeating to yourself over and over again.  Why?  Anything that we give to Him can be a holy work.  Our holy experience.  The "thing" regardless of how treacherous it may seem or how simple—for that matter...can be our "gateway to joy" our "holy experience" something that causes us to Walk With Him a little closer than before.

Let's look at a step that's been said to help make a pattern, or something we do HABITUAL.

Do it over.  Repeat.


When you want to master something, you repeat it.  One of my husbands favorite quotes is, "Repetition is the mother of skill, and actions is its father."

Therefore this week, practice on repeating.  Doing it again.  Anything that you want to get better at...anything that you want to learn...do it again and again.  And then do it some more—purposing in your heart to make "it" your holy experience...your gateway to joy.

"Better is the end of a thing than its beginning." ~ Ecclesiastes 7:8

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There is a time for everything under the sun

Celebrating  Him and His endless gifts of giving

Learning thankfulness for the endless blessings Christ gives us.


Take a look around ...  go ahead.  Somewhere you will find His endless gifts to you.  No matter how bleak things may look today—take a look around.  I bet you'll find something.  Actually, I know you will.  He's the gift giver.

The best way for us to see our endless gifts is to celebrate in what we have: What He's given us.

Thank Him in heart for the obvious

Sit back and ponder on the even smaller blessings...things,

the things you and I have the ability to take for granted ... overlook. 



The Bible tells us, "There is an appointed time for everything/  And there is a time for every event under the heaven— God has made everything appropriate in its time.  He has also set eternity in their heart, yet so that man will not find out the work which God has done from the beginning even to the end."

Timing is important.  God  has a plan for all people.  Therefore, He gives us a life cycle.  It is up to us to find satisfaction in what God has given us to do.  Our attitude is everything. 


You will become dissatisfied  in life and work if you or I loose the sense of purpose God has intended for us.  We can enjoy our life...work when we remember

  • God has given us work to do
  • Remember that the fruit of our labor is a gift from Him
  • See our work as a way to serve Him
We will never be completely satisfied with our earthly pleasures and pursuits, why?  God has set eternity in our hearts.  We've been created in His image.  We have a spiritual thirst which gives us eternal value and nothing but an eternal God can truly satisfy that thirst. 





What is the purpose of life?  To praise and fear an all powerful God.  To fear God means we respect and stand in AWE of HIM because of who He is. 

We will not fulfill our purpose in life unless we first, fear God and give Him first place in our lives.

The best way to start is by CELEBRATING HIM and the endless gift of giving us opportunity after opportunity to do so.

Though we mess up much...He never fails to give His endless gifts of giving to those He love ...


Celebrating the present and passing it along !

#'s 17-37 of my celebrating of His endless gifts.

~ family dinners
~ board games
~ grandma's & papa's
~ memories
~ content within
~being loved
~being able to love
~family friends
~today
~tears
~ books
~ opportunities
~laughter
~ life
~ cousins
~late wanderings
~ family chorus
~ cousins Karaoke machine
~ precious babe cousins and the honor to cuddle and love them, then give them back.
~ the sky and its contents
~ the sun and it's meaning of new beginnings and completion
~ Sitting around the dinner late nights, laughing and talking with kids and husband
~ Hearing kids  laugh and confess about childhood mishaps...going in the woods ... jumping fences  running from neighbors dogs

Multitudes on Mondays, celebrating His one thousand gifts to us.

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